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Life of wisdom


We habitually create storms for ourselves. We will go where fools fear to tread as it were. Or even the fearless think twice before treading. And then, we get upset or feel hurt at the outcome.

With idealism, one has to be practical also. I should have the intelligence not to put my hand in the fire when I am aware that the fire burns. But I am not always so intelligent.

“No” is not a bad or offensive word if used correctly. It applies to us mainly. To refuse is a right. And saying “no” to you so as to abstain from foolish indulgences speaks of a cleverness we all need in order to live a life of wisdom.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Life full of plans


When we are young and life stretches ahead, we are full of plans about how we will lead our lives, plan our careers, marriage, do this do that…

As years go by, things begin to change rapidly. The focus shifts on health and an inner circle of support system. It is strange how many lives we live in one lifetime and how priorities keep changing.

The one thing is never to take life for granted. You never know what is round the corner for you. So, refrain from anything which might harm your health always.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari


I often find people asking that if the world is our mirror and we mirror each other, why is there so much conflict? Because each one would like to feel they are good people. So, why is goodness not mirrored in the opposite person? Good question.

I have seen that when we don’t accept the fact that we attract who we are, we are in trouble with our levels of understanding.

It is simple. If you want to see a clean face in the mirror, you will first have to clean the make up on it. You cannot possibly go into the mirror to cleanse your face, can you? So, for example, if you want to see love shining at you, you must mirror that quality of love within yourself first. How can it be mirrored otherwise?

We always want love, respect from others but when do we succeed in getting it? Only when we are full of love and respect ourselves.

But we do the contrary. We give only what we get. So, if we get hatred, we give it back. Whereas if love ruled us it would be mirrored in others as well.

The problem is, we lack the faith that this can and will happen.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Perception


Many of us live within a whirlpool of repeated patterns, bringing the same results each time and those that get embedded deeply bring either joy or grief. Those that cause grief need to be examined afresh. Evidently, while attempting to make the right choices, we end up making some wrong ones , too.

Most of the time, the tags “right” and “wrong” refer to the results of our actions as materializing in a feeling of joy or sorrow. But what we don’t easily perceive is that if the intentions are pure, the actions perceived as wrong can ultimately have a good effect, because the “wrong” was a clouded perception.

If you have done your best, you will sleep well every night.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari


The only worthwhile knowledge which takes you further on the path of personal growth is that you know nothing. And in a way, it is true because the more you profess to know; the more there is to know.

I marvel at any form of arrogance of knowledge and this is precisely the reason. Can I ever say that my word is the last word? When creation constantly changes, expands, creates each moment, I really would be foolish in claiming any such thing. Those that understand this are genuinely grounded and humble.

So, you share what you know and that keeps multiplying. Others tune into your wavelength and you into other frequencies. And thus, the process of new learning and new understanding makes you realize that there is never any end to knowledge. You have to move and gather knowledge as you go along.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Lesson to learn


When you begin to understand energy and realize that everything is energy, then, practically, it becomes easy to understand where you are unnecessarily “donating” your energy or “depositing” it. There is much difference between the two. I added “unnecessary” to the first one for those who donate for a personal gain, whether it is money or time for emotions. It depletes their energy. If you constantly try and explain to people who you are with the intention that they should change their opinion about you and like you. This is really giving away good energy to one not deserving of it.

Depositing, as I see it is investing energy. It is a positive exchange most of the time. Like, the love of a mother and child. Such deposits increase and multiply.

So, energy cannot be given away indiscriminately, is the lesson I learnt in life. Because the moment you focus your energy on something, it grows. So, make sure where you deposit your energy and what you want to see grow. It is precious.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Bliss!


Happiness means so many different things to different people. But ignorance is often the greatest bliss factor. And to ignore is also a great bliss at the best and the worst of times.

Imagine, if you never had any recognition of who liked you and who didn’t, or just chose to ignore it all, how wonderful it would be! Or that you never thought of who YOUR favorite was and who not!! Happiness!!! To swim through life mindless of who or what or when and why…..Bliss!

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari